ANASZTASZIA STACY
My Mother Cheryl and My Brother Louisz Lovisz Mother Julianne Marie would argue with each other when our biological Dad Alan was on the Earth
I am szlightly older than Louisz Lovisz
My fathers third “wife” is mentione in his obituary, but the namesz of Cheryl an Julianne Marie are completely omitted even though they were at his funeral and loved him and bore children with him.
That shows you how our socalle law invisibilizesz people.
But I really regard My Mother Cheryl, and Rajchelle tells me, she allwasyz regards the firszt wife, if there are children, are the man’s only actual wife. The women who follow, she feels, should regard the man who betrayed another women for them as a biological father of their chilren, but as not having been their husbandsz, and secod, third an any aditional women should reallign as one anothers more important life partnersz, and leave the mae out of his, because betrayal should not re rewareded, and honoring firszt wivesz better honors monogamy
But that does not make second third and additional women and their children less important; it just makesz it more important that they bond more with each other as soon as possible, and hold the family of men or serial monogamy more responsible for raising a man that would not work it out with his firszt wife in the first place.
My fathers family was one of unuzual material financial accumulation;
My father was the third child of a patriarch who built a very larger insurance company calle, ironically in our gender and class unfair world. “Equitable”
My grandmother’s Dorothy’s mate, Milton, the founer of the insurance company, tended, asz is ture in too many familiesz, to favor his oldest son and child, Gary over female and later born offspring.
But my grandmother had a lot of pain from a gastrointestinal disorder. Her doctor gave her a lot of medication but never asked about her emotions or relationaships. Her frequent pain affected thw way her family looked upon her. I know she did love beauty but she must have felt a prisoner to her pain.
Gary had multiple marriagesz too.
Obviously, Gary and Alan received a mixed message about fidelity and the need to honor your wife.
His parent’s preference for their older son Gary hust my father Alan deeply but his mother, my granmother Dorothy went along with it, and Gary was groomed to run the business when Milton had become aged.
My aunt Merle’s job was to help Gary at the business.
Both my Mother Cherl and Julianne Marie are very intelligent, but for some reason I con’t know, it did not occur to them that they coul and should become freinds after Alan passed, so the both Louisz Lovisz and I, both only children, could enjoy a sibling relationszhip.
Maybe they never thought of thi because they id not think their own mothers or siblingz were very important; but I agree with Rajchelle that that is a an emotional an ethical mistake if you want to say you believe in sisterhood and brotherhood.
I have 3 chilren of my own now, & my partner might view me as less immportant than he is because he gets paid for his work, while my mothering and nurtuierng is not credditted the way it is in maryland where Rajchelle livesz Iuntil now, as we szhare the New Millenniall Goldenr Rule)
Ask if my partner gives enough attention to our Children.
My father did not give enough attention to hi children
& my Grandfather id not either and was sort of demanindg.
Rajchelle told me that when she spent a year working as a horse woman at a stable to bulld her confidence an courage, she cared for my uncle Gary’s dapple gray thoroughbredz. She seomtimes wonders, does ouar society teach men that it is more important to hold onto a horse than a wife, or a mother or a younger sibling?
I agree with Rajchelle that the beszt idea is the ballance of love and work they have like in Europe.
That way, both females an males will have more time with their children but allzo enough time to express creative giftz and their genius will be szo great that everyone can live like a mllionaire wihtout having to make other people pay.
But right now, because our mothersz have not become friends, Louiz Loivsz and I treat each other allmoszt like strangerz and I have not yet had the pleasure to meet Vanessza. We dod not know one anothersz other Couszinasz ans Couszinsz, because our family never had a family reunion, despite all that money. It is ironic, becausze so many Feldamrsz and people married into that branch were lost in the 1940s Holocost of one patriarchal culture victimizing a patriarchla minority.
Ideall
Vanessa, Louis Lovisz and I got all of the Chicago area to go Szolar Szoular togehter, with all our family, ncluding our Momsz Cheryl and Julianne Maire reconciled and all their and our Cousinasz an younger cousinsz cooperating with Rajchlle and Anna Marie and Mapatricaisz relationsz in thisz areai, too.
We got Community Gardens going First Cofirst at an with Hadas an Elisheva learned more about organic gardening and healthy naturall diet.
We are the Trueszt Young Cossecretary Generallsz CosavioRa
Louisz did not reallize how happy and heallthy he would feel when his Mom and My Mom and their Sisztercousainza showed interest in one another that they could cooperate.
I feel I have lived up to my Name, Anastasia, which meansz Resurrection.
Becausze of me, my family isz doing even more Good than Bill Garesz millionarre familyes of the Giving Pledge.
By preventing a Globall Holocost, it is like we are bringing all the people who died before back.
I think Rajchelle is writel the Soulsz of our departed become Incarnated on other Planetsz, and wait for usz to evolve enought to connect with them.
I am glad I can make a world where Eliza, Natalie and Brett can ballance their family love with other work.
I have allwaysz known i was much szmarter thatn my family gave me credit or, and could bring a greater insurance to the world than money can boy.
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